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I’ll never be a pool shark

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Are we there yet?

Are we there yet?

All things considered, the trip to Texas went reasonably well. It would have been smoother had we been able to stretch our legs for longer periods of time, but Arizona and New Mexico were horribly hot and dusty, and the dogs couldn’t handle it. The trip back later this summer ought to be just peachy.

Anyway.

I am so damn sick of going to the hardware store. It’s a place filled with stuff that doesn’t interest me. Plus, when you think about it, usually a trip to the hardware store means something is wrong. Pretty much everything is wrong with our place. The former owners somehow managed to leave everything just on the brink of breaking. Last December we spent nearly three weeks cleaning the freaking hazmat zone they left behind, and fixing odds and ends. This trip is no different, except more things are broken, which is just awesome.

Our first journey to Home Depot was on Thursday night, right after we rolled into town and discovered one of the toilets was broken. I knew what we needed to fix it, but was in a tired daze, and didn’t buy the right thing. So we had to go back. Then, I got to fix the toilet. I won’t go into all the details, because that would be extremely boring. The long and short of it is, I did fix it, and it took forever because the plumbing is old. And because I’m not a freaking plumber.

And then? Since I’m a little bit of a perfectionist, I went in to make an adjustment after I was done, and completely fucked it up. As you can imagine, a great deal of profanity spewed forth – I’d even classify my reaction as a full on temper tantrum. So it’s still broken. I need a little time before I tackle that chore again.

Yesterday we decided to abandon our repairs and have some much needed fun. We met my dad, stepmom and grandma for some lunch, and afterward went on a little dive bar crawl and played some pool. If we’re peeps on Facebook or Twitter, then you already know that. What you don’t know is, I am the world’s worst pool player. Always have been.

One of my grandpas, who passed away a long time ago, owned a few bars in Houston. When I was a kid he used to take me with him to go open the places up in the afternoon, which I loved. I ran around and played, and my grandpa taught me how to get a free game out of the pinball machine (and how to steal quarters from it – probably not the best thing to teach a small child. He, however, thought it was hilarious. Grandpa was quite a character). Once I was tall enough to see over the side of the pool table, he also tried to teach me to play pool. Exactly once. I managed to put a scratch a mile long in the felt. My grandpa was horrified, and that was the end of that.

Aside from all the broken crap in our place, I am happy to be back in Texas. It’s beautiful here.

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Happy Monday y’all.

So this is happening.

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Look out Texas, momma’s coming home.

We’re leaving in an hour. By car. Two people, two dogs, for a twenty hour trip – should be fun.

In the past I’ve blogged about my husband’s unpredictable work schedule, so we can never plan things out ahead of time. Needless to say, this trip came together at the last minute, and we’ll be there for…a while-ish, which is to say the trip back will be equally last minute. Whatever, I’m just rolling with it.

I’ve only made the drive from Texas to California once, fifteen years ago when I moved here. It took forever, and I swore I would never do it again. My mom drove out with me, so it was an…interesting trip. I should really look and see if I’ve ever written about it, because that story definitely deserves its own post.

Anyway, the last few days have been an exciting flurry of preparation and working out logistics. You know what I’ve put the most thought into? Not what we’re going to do about the mail, who is going to water the plant, or what I need to bring for an extended trip. My main concern has been putting together a road trip mix. The longest journey by car we’ve ever done together was seven hours, this is nearly triple that, so I figure we need the perfect mix of music to keep our sanity.

Wish us luck.

PS – My husband just walked in with a grim expression, holding a set of keys in his hand. While looking for something else, he just so happened to come across the keys to our place, which neither of us thought about. It would have been just peachy to show up after two days of travel, only to discover we were locked out.

I don’t even want to think about what other important things we’re leaving behind.

This is why we shouldn’t have kids.

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Yesterday morning I took both dogs to the vet for their shots, and an exam for Stinky. When we arrived my heart sunk, because it was jam packed with people and animals, and my other dog is difficult. At home she’s a total sweetheart, but the moment she steps out the door, she becomes a bundle of nervous, anxious energy.

Because it was so busy, I had to wait a while, during which time my min-pin worked herself into a tizzy. She used to be fine with going to the vet, however, she suffered a broken leg a couple of years ago and they had to perform surgery to put it back together. Ever since she’s been scared. Not that I blame her.

They finally called in Stinko, but unfortunately the other dog’s appointment was with a vet tech, and they still weren’t ready for her. So I brought both of them into the room, and the vet was already examining Stinky when they came for my other dog. Now, just to be clear, I did ask the vet tech if he wanted me to muzzle her (the dog, not the vet tech), and he said no. She was NOT happy about being led away, and strained at her leash to stay in the room with me. Approximately two seconds after the door shut, I heard, “oh Spazzy” in an unhappy voice.

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What?

And then the barking began. It’s worth noting that Spazzy has the world’s loudest, most shrill and annoying bark.

When I opened the door to the exam room, I was greeted by the following:

Apparently, the moment the door closed, my lovely little dog shat all over the floor. I am not kidding when I say all over. Like, her body weight in poo. And as she was doing that, she somehow twisted herself out of her harness. Then she tore through the lobby in circles and barked a mile a minute, scaring the bejesus out of the twenty or so people waiting, and their dogs, cats, rabbits, and other assorted animals, all the while being chased by four vet techs.

I was horrified, to say the least. I also had Stinko in my arms, so when I joined in the chase she was bobbing all over the place, and was not happy about that at all. Anyway, it took a couple of minutes of her terrorizing everyone, but one of the techs finally cornered my dog. I turned around to find the entire room staring at me with accusatory glares. So, feeling like the world’s worst pet owner, I pretty much tucked my tail between my legs and meekly walked back to the exam room. You should have seen the look the vet tech tasked with cleaning all the poo gave me. Awesome.

When I relayed the story to my husband he laughed hysterically. I’m fairly certain that, were we to have children, we’d be the parents whose child shows up to preschool and then runs through the room screaming his head off while knocking down all the carefully constructed blocks and legos and whatnot that the well behaved children put together. Sigh.

What was I doing?

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Longtime readers know I occasionally get fixated on bellybutton-gazing-type pointless ponderings, and then feel the need to share. This weekend was all about the human capacity to consume mass amounts of information, and then fuggetaboutit.

In college I had this professor, who was absolutely phenomenal, in spite of the fact that her classes never actually covered what they were meant to. She spoke several languages, and said she had forgotten several as well. She spent a year in the Amazon doing research for her doctorate, and learned to speak the local dialect, but not long after her study was complete forgot most of what she learned. It’s not uncommon, tons of people grow up and forget a language they knew quite well as a child. Or perhaps you took French all four years of high school, and then in college, and spent six months in Paris for a study abroad program, and now you can barely order foie gras (gross). It’s amazing, really, to think a person could spend the time to learn a language fluently, only to have it slip away from disuse.

I have two degrees in Anthropology, and spent countless hours studying, writing, and cramming my head with theories. Maybe, and this is a big maybe, I retained 15% of what I learned. Yes, I remember the basic principals and theories and whatnot, but no longer the specifics of who said what, when and in what context. That’s pretty pathetic, especially considering the amount I have left to pay off my student loans, and years of my life I dedicated to my studies. On the other hand, fifteen percent is a hell of a lot more than I remember from high school, and if I had to put a percentage on the information I retained from those years, it would probably be .00000001%. So maybe I got my money’s worth in college after all.

Anyway, I’m more interested in the things we forget aside from what we learned in school. It’s one thing to fill your head with information for a test, vomit it out, and then forget about it when it no longer serves a purpose. It’s an entirely different thing when we forget something physical, like pain, which we fortunately have the ability to push out of our minds. Just ask anyone with multiple tattoos or piercings, or better yet, a mother with multiple kids.

To me, the most bizarre form of forgetting is when it’s personal, like names of people and places and restaurants we once knew. Sometimes we forget things we shouldn’t, and as a result end up making the same mistake repeatedly. I’m sure everyone knows a person that swears off dating assholes, and then conveniently forgets all about it when the next douche bag comes along.

Our capacity to forget about heartbreak can be both good and bad. Yes, it’s harmful when a person consistently falls for the wrong person, each time neglecting (often purposefully) to remember how painful it is when the relationship goes south. However, forgetting heartbreak is probably more useful than not. It allows us to get over that bad relationship, or maybe the good one that we thought would never end but did, and move on with life. And how could one possibly bear to start anew with another person if they couldn’t let go of their previous breakup?

Okay, end bellybutton time. I have errands to run, and of course, forgot where I put my keys. Happy Monday y’all.